I really like the way you think. I spent years topping from the bottom with mostly bad sessions until about 5 years ago when I learned to share my interests and then turn over all control to the Domme and let her do as she wishes. It takes time for them to know you, the way you breathe, how you react, how you handle pain, your kinks, what your limits "really" are, and then learning and experiencing more as she breaks through the soft ones and tests the hard ones enabling me to please her and submit/surrender in the way she wants to see it, and not in the way I envisioned it. With the Dommes I session with now, who know me very well, we always session without a safe word so they can have total control (TPE / C/NC) to take me on a journey they want me to experience that gives them the joy they desire and wish for me to experience. This next session in a few short days I think will be Epic in that I have no idea what is coming, who will be there other than the two "control" Dommes, and I am prepared to do what I am ordered to do before, during, and after the session. I have total trust in their abilities, talents and skills, and their Professionalism that I know I am in for something that will test me. Truthfully, I am grateful to spend the time with these amazing and beautiful Women and I adore and respect them on a personal and Professional level. So no matter what really happens on that day, it will be great because we will share some time together naked or not.