Z,

I believe what you are saying about your experiences, it just had not been mine since I would never ask for anything like that. But, thinking through your scenario I would never say to a Domme that if she did "x" for me (in this case, get nude), I would allow her to do "y" (in this case a severe caning).

However, if she said to me that she was going to cane me very hard and that she had a special treat planned for me if I took it for her that would be much more likely a scenario. I think that would be hot but I have to admit that taking the pain for her enjoyment would still be enough for me. That's just me though.