Hmmm…potentially two different scenarios here. When I reach out to a Domme there is definitely a butterflies in the stomach reaction as I wait for a response. Every time I see a new email in my inbox, my heart rate goes up in a good way. But that’s anticipation! I view that as positive.

If I reach out to someone new and never get a response, that is different and not positive. I always give the benefit of the doubt as I know everyone has things they are dealing with, but I’d never make travel plans unless I’ve had contact.

Sounds like you’ve made contact and agreed upon a session. I know it is hard, but I’d suggest just going with it and assume it will work out. Doesn’t sound like you have been given reason to doubt at this point. Have a great time and let us know how it went!!!