I came across a pro domme's site that stated subs are required to have their public hair shaved. I had never seen this requirement before, although I remember a blog post a long time ago by a sub who said he was surprised when he was chastised by a mistress for not having his pubic hair shaved.

In videos, subs often if not mostly have their pubes shaved, and I assumed this was due to them being lifestyle and also for video. But I'm also of an older generation where male pubic hair shaving just isn't standard practice. For dommes and subs, I'm curious, what is standard practice, or what are expectations around this type of grooming, today?

Years of cbt play and having the hair accidentally pulled when the Domme puts the various devices on has convinced me shaving is the way!

One of the best sessions I ever had, Misrress started with a waxing of my pubes. Not candle wax. Salon style waxing. She gave me a Brazilian of course.

As a sub on the spectrum (LGBTQIA+), I remove all hair except a little patch in my pubic region. Sometimes it is a narrow strip, sometimes a bit wider - but always trimmed close and neat. I take alot of pride in my appearance, including hair removal. Every detail matters, as I want to present my best to her. Also, I go out in public as well.

So, just a background on me, and the dynamic with my domme. I am surprised she has never "taken my patch", or taken me to a salon to get it professionally removed as part of a humiliation scene. It wouldn't take much to remove it, and they would not have to work between legs, butt, etc. Easy money, yet super humiliating.....especially if my domme was by my side. So hawt!!!

I know my domme has done this before, but never with me. I don't know why. Maybe she likes how I manicure and prepare?

Anyways, great topic. And the point about getting caught in a cage is a good point! OUCH!!!!

Celeste

While it's not a requirement. I appreciate a well groomed pubic area, even for generalized sessions.

If the main focus is cbt, and ballbusting I demand it! Years ago, I had a sub schedule a two hour session with cbt as his main interest. His pubic area was so covered in long matted black hair. I was unable to see what I was working on.

I chastised him severely. I then trimmed his bush with an electric razor. I keep on hand for head shaving!

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I've never had an issue having some hair. I tend to be in a relationship and session secretly, so shaving everything bare is mot possible to avoid suspicion. That said, the balls, ass area, and inner thighs get shaved and the area above the penis gets trimmed short

Thank you for the reply. Could I ask a question? Professionally, what would say is the common level of grooming for the subs you see, and does it differ by age?

As a sub I have my entire body waxed before a session. I have all of my body hair removed from my neck to my toes. One mistress that I serve prefers a completely smooth body. Another mistress appreciates the hair free skin. I feel more naked and submissive when I am completely smooth.
In addition, the waxing process is a form of light BDSM. I am completely nude during the entire process which encompasses clothed female, naked male submission. There is also the pain of having the hair pulled out from my skin.

That's an interesting question. I have noticed a major difference in grooming. Younger subs, say mid 20s to late 30s, are much more likely not have any pubic hair at all! Great for all things cbt related.

Men in their 40s and 50s are a mixed bag of nuts. (pardon the play on words). I have some that are well groomed, and some with beards and body hair like bears.

Men in their 60s and 70s are normally much better groomed. Several having undergone training form one Mistress or another, for years.

Excuse me for saying it Mistress Mickey. That picture is screaming hot! I'm sure you don't have any problem getting proper grooming from your slaves.