I will never understand why so many Dommes use BDSM terms in their cash app and other payment methods. I think most subs would really prefer not to have "Strap on Queen" or "Mistress XYZ" on their bank statements.

I won't use cashapp or anything like venmo, stripe, etc. Very few providers now take alternate forms of deposits. It's tougher to session as most want 50% via cashapp and a picture of you holding your id. Totally understand that if other sessioners are willing to do it, might as well to avoid no shows. Still some dommes and studios out there that offer alternatives, but man, getting bare.

I'd treat that as a litmus test and be glad you found out early that those people don't value discretion. Better to find out early than too late.

All of my payment methods have always had a simple cat icon and generic cat theme as the name. No one would bat an eye seeing it, and I make sure you can't find me through searching them.

I like the cat theme, I'm sure your subs appreciate that too

It's not smart on the Domme's end either, most platforms will permanently ban you if they think you're doing SW. I've only used My name and I'm banned from CashApp and Venmo. Payment platforms are limited these days!

Some people are just naive. They don't get how this stuff works. They don't know that it will show up on your bank statement or that these payment processors now have verification that Mistress XYZ is Margaret Jones which could follow her around for quite a long time. I bet several of us have made a similar mistake.

Likewise with publicly advertising their payment links. None of those companies are cool with their services being used for adult content -- especially in-person work. But, still, Goddess Domme Mistress posts a photo of her stack of pancakes at IHOP and ask for reimbursement to their cashapp $GoddessDommeMistress without understanding it's easy to search for those links.