I get it. Begging or commenting on how something feels because you are what we call a "do me" sub is most definitely topping from the bottom, which I will sometimes tolerate and sometimes not - depending on the subs general attitude, My mood at the moment and if it fits My overall agenda. Begging or commenting because you have lost control, reason, etc. is a completely different situation. Those moments when a sub loses control is what I think we all live for.

I think we have discussed communication in session before. I love genuine responses that don't have an agenda. Groans, moans and even the occasional "fuck" are all good in the moment.