Originally Posted By palmer
It think for some dommes the rate is part of their branding, and Mistress Oksana may fall in this group. There's someone also like Mistress Seren (four years experience as a professional) in New York, who talked a bit about this in an interview I watched of hers. I believe she charges 1K/hour too. And someone like Danielle Blunt charges first-timers 4K for a three-hour session. For some of these dommes, there can also be either an overt findom element to some of their practice or else a gentler encouragement to view the relationship as a lifestyle-adjacent one that involves supporting the domme more broadly, not just by paying for session time.

Ironically, I think it's the dommes who are extremely technically experienced who often charge less and work within more of a pure-session mentality. (Although Blunt I'm sure is very technically skilled as she's had a very long career.)


The Luxury of Luxury Services.

I've thought about the thing you mention: "lifestyle-adjacent".

Some people, like Mistress Blunt, seem to invest a lot of time into their public persona via social media. Do you know how exhausting that is? Coming up with posts all day long?

That is likely a factor in why she charges 4k. You're paying for the way she drew you in and entertained you before you get to see her in person.

It reminds me of Mistress Eva Oh. She was very heavy in Twitter years ago, then I heard she charged people 10k per day.

I always wondered what a 10k day looked like with her.