buffalo--your story and my story are dead on the same. And you say it so well. Thank you for that!

DominaM asked "How is your evolution going? Where are you from where you started? What ideas fell away and what remained? What reappeared after a long absence?

Evolution from the start: from seeking a wide range of experiences from many different Dommes to the wish for one woman who I can serve with commitment, and love in and out of a femdom dynamic relationship. Of course the chanes of finding that at any age is a long shot, so in my 70's it won't happen. But then we all do live in much of a fantasy world so it will be okay.

Ideas of travel and meeting international Dommes, first discovered in DDI magazine, and racking up a hundred experiences are long gone. So is rough physical play and intense whipping. But fetish and desire are forever. Her stockings and heels will always captivate me but only her demeanor and interest in me as a person will result in Her "owning" me. Devotion and commitment follows.

[Rereading my reply makes me think I should head over to Fetlife and explore what's possible.]