This is also what I am talking about. Sometimes things just aren't the feelings you have in your mind. Not good or bad, but certainly part of the self discovery process.

Post orgasm torture is a good one to mention. I ALWAYS ask if someone has done it before and what their experience was. The mentality pre and post orgasm is completely different. If I am lucky and the sub's biology is in my favor we can rebuild the energy where it is actual torment evolving into excitement.

More often than not the sub just hates the post orgasm torment, but I make him stay the whole time anyway. The future memory will be hot atleast.

Oh this is one of the reasons I never use safewords. So many things are hot after the fact and I want space for that to happen. Fun non pro story!

Years ago I never dreamed that I could marry someone who would "tolerate" my "impossible fantasies".

Fast forward 40 years, and once or twice a year my wife dons her Dominatrix outfit, while she and a pro Dom put me thru my paces at the Dom's dungeon. I dreamed "the impossible dream" and it came true.

Ok, so this is where my newest "impossible fantasy" starts creeping in. "It's never enough" according to my wife.
Anyway, back to the latest fantasy.

Once the Dom and my wife have finished doing the usual BDSM stuff to me, the Dom leaves us alone and gives my wife and I the privacy to finish up together.

So I can't leave well enough alone,and as I'm enjoying great after BDSM sex with my wife, this nagging thought/fantasy is creeping into my head........ the Dom barges back into the room wearing a dildo and starts positioning herself behind me, and says, if your wife is getting it, than so are you Mister........

Only problem is, I dont think my wife has the same fantasy.....so somewhere in the next 40 years, I'll report back....in the meantime, I'll count my blessings.
TD

Forced bi.....

I finally did it in 2025, with my domme setting it up and also being present and a part. It was super hot all the way around. She set me up with eye candy, and everything was done, including skin care at the end - a facial. After the facial, the bull left.....but we were not done. My domme made me wear it as the session continued. I did not care. I was in the moment, and OMG - did my mistress deliver!!! It concluded in the shower with Golden. I was a total hot mess.

I always wondered how I would feel after the fact. Would I feel guilt? Would I consider myself gay? Etc. Interestingly, it did not bother me at all. As a matter of fact, it liberated me. It made me realize that at times, I like to let go and be taken like that. I am a slut. There, I said it! And its not about me anymore, as I have shifted towards preferring to serve and please in all ways. A major shift in my feelings and mindset in and out of session. Much softer now and less guarded. It is ok to please and let go, and experience who I truly am at my core.

Thanks, Domina M for this great post and interactions. We need more of this on here.

XOXO - Celeste

I love that you make him stay for the full time. I would love to see you. Actually this is another fantasy that I don’t think will ever come true. Being free in Paris with unlimited time and money. Actually free in Europe would be even better. I’d see you in Paris. Mistress Ayn in Romania. Mistress Hera in Marbella. There’s more too ha ha. Sadly just a fantasy.

Thanks for starting a great thread.

Not that I have crazy BDSM fantasies these days, but think I'm more like you in this example than your client. I'm more prone to thinking about how the fantasy won't work than being revved about how it could. For example, there are a couple of UK mistresses who do something called The Kidnap Klub, which is abduction role play with a kind of espionage twist. They seem great, the concept seems very cool, but when I think it through, I worry I couldn't stay in the headspace for all the time required.

That's probably the remaining fantasy -- to do a scene like that or some kind of extended prison-themed scene. Maybe not OWK-levels of severity but something where I'd have to accept the length and settle into an extended submissive headspace.

I used to see a great mistress at an NY house, and she always did post-orgasm torture, requested or not (and, with me, it was not). Just a couple of minutes. I would squirm and have a hard time but always complied and never requested otherwise. It just seemed to be her thing.

Ahhh, the world tour fantasy. Here is mine....

Paris - M, Blanche, Iris
Hong Kong - Euryale
UK - AA

Probably so many more I am just not aware of. But these 'catch my eye' and pull me in.

Celeste

In my admittedly limited experience it was incorporated into extended sessions. Basically somewhere around the midway point I was pushed to orgasm while securely restrained. Post O caning on the inner thighs followed as a punishment for having cum "without permission". I was then left in isolation bondage with checks at fixed intervals to see if I was recovered ( brief teasing and then punishment if no arousal resulted) This continued until I was able to become aroused again and the session continued.

Absolutely HATED it while it was happening but a very hot memory.
I see this as a great example of using a limited/specific form of CNC.
Interestingly, I found being forced to eat the cum more challenging than the caning while not aroused.

Anyway, while intellectually I know I'd hate the experience while it was happening, I'd still very likely agree to doing it again with the right partner.