I found this list, doing some research on how advanced (or I'm not) I am with my Mistress. A session from a couple of days ago was incredible. In the past year or two - hell this year - we have gone past many borders I thought I would never cross. I do it to please Mistress and it turns her on, I do not consider it punishment but a privilege since it pleases both of us.

Here's the fascinating list:
https://kinklovers.com/bdsm-dating-tips/submissive-male-ideas/

I've done 7 of 12, if you include oral strap-on worship. I would add one not on the list, GS, to make it 8 of 13.

As for the clothed Mistress/naked man, Mistress knows I'm an exhibitionist and we have done some play in public settings when the public is not around. The last couple of sessions I stripped for Mistress in a storage facility, helping her to move stuff in or out, to her delight. It hot and shocking for both of us. (Euphoric, I almost didn't care if we got caught.) At this point our play is practically lifestyle.

Fellow subs, how many have you done?

I’ve done them all to at least some degree except chastity play and cuckholding. I may actually get a chance to try chastity play soon but it will be one time thing for a few days before a session.

I have done 10 of 12 - exceptions being #1 PW and #11 Cuckholding.

It is interesting the distinction between #1 PW and #2 Facesitting. I agree that these are totally different, and a different dynamic in a domme / sub interaction.

I would like to do all 12. But, of course the dynamic has to be of consent by both parties. So, I accept that and respect that about her.

We have so much fun and fire, we really dont need to do all 12. It is that damn good! So fortunate and happy!

Celeste

I'm at 7 out of the 12.....no to chastity, cuckholding, sissification, SPH and Trampling. If you add watersports (forced consumption rather than GS in my case) then I'd be at 8 of 13

Nice article with some interesting links in it, thanks for posting it.

I am good with 8 of the 12, not so good with SPH, sissification, cuckholding, and trampling.

Have done some humiliation play but not SPH. I have to admit that when the verbal humiliation was done at the same time as some other activities that it was pretty dammed exciting even though part of me was not at all happy about it.

FWIW I differentiate between humiliation play and degradation.

Humiliation leaves me cold but I find being "forced" to perform degrading acts can be a great concrete demonstration of a Domme's power. Reinforcing the idea that I am helpless and completely at her mercy really adds to the scene for me.

Same fur fan, same

I hate most verbal humiliation. Nothing kills my buzz faster than a Domme telling me any variation of you’re “worthless, useless, a loser, etc, etc”

Most of my play is in the ballbusting, cbt space which can be incredibly humiliating without any verbal added

A Domme said to me once “why do I need to tell you that you are my bitch, because when you are rolling around in pain at my feet, we both KNOW you’re my bitch”

I'm not into what you are Chi61, but that's a great quote! My Mistress calls me plenty of things, some would think its verbal humiliation. But to me it just turns me on more.

One more on verbal humiliation. For a time I did sessions with dominant female bodybuilders, not in dungeons, usually in their hotel rooms. Scissoring, non-competitive wrestling with "junglebeast" getting the punishment. After one such session with a lady I knew pretty well we spoke about dungeons and typical equipment. I finally said to this muscular Amazon, "You don't need equipment. You ARE the equipment!" She laughed, threw me against a wall and pinned me there for a minute or so. LOL!

I have tried 11 of 12. Never experienced cuckholding. I don't love trampling and wouldn't miss it if it never happened again. I "like" 9 of the 12. Impact play is definitely punishment for me. Sissification doesn't really work for me. I don't know whether or not I like Cuck play.

There are different degrees of "like" for each of the 9.