GReat post, Domina M. You raise some great points here. I agree on some of the practical stuff about urine everywhere.

But, I want to talk about the scene being too scripted. Let her lead!!! That is my advice to every sub looking to play professionally. Ummm, that is why she is a professional! She will read you and introduce you to new things as the dynamic gets stronger over time. That is what I love about it - trust her, let her lead, no worries! Also, it you let her lead, she is more likely to do things that she also enjoys, and that only builds a bigger and stronger fire! My mistress and I build a fucking inferno every time we play, and that is a principle I always live by - let her plan and let her lead.

As far as fantasies not fulfilled. Cuckholding is one - more her choice more so than mine. But, I will say many soft and hard limits of mine have been busted due to good communication and letting her lead. It gets me off, and it gets her off.

Great post. Thanks for it!

Celeste