Mistress Ayn, I think we all can learn from these experiences and have said many times that I feel Dommes are in many ways therapists allowing us to reveal our true selves. A sub who does not recognize that Dommes become invested in what they do and with whom they see, does not understand what is really going on. Personally, I think you and Mistress Ultra Violet are amazing Women and if I lived in Atlanta, well you know......