Originally Posted By Domina M
I thought of this post last night while having dinner with a colleague of mine here in Paris. She is has been a part time professional for about five years now, but she is thinking about giving up the professional part because she finds it too emotionally draining.


This is a familiar story for me. Over the years with Mistresses I knew well, we would discuss the scene. More than a few mentioned the emotional baggage some subs inadvertently dumped on them. (Of course there were always very few but memorable customers - I won't call them subs - who went out of their way bringing their negative emotions into sessions.) A lot of subs can be oblivious to all of this.