I’m looking for recommendations for directories or platforms that are compatible with a more discreet, old-school approach of advertising.

I’ve been active in kink for many years and tend to work more “underground” rather than through heavy mainstream advertising. I don’t show my face publicly and I’ve historically maintained more of a writing-based presence (blog / long-form content) rather than a traditional commercial website.

With the disappearance of platforms like Craigslist and Backpage, I’m finding it harder to stay visible to serious, respectful people without being pushed into requirements that don’t align with how I work (requiring face photos, full ID verification uploads, glossy marketing websites, etc.).

I’m not opposed to screening, discretion, or professionalism, - quite the opposite - I’m simply looking for spaces that still accommodate privacy, selective engagement, and a more relationship-oriented dynamic and lower commercial presentation.

If anyone knows of directories, collectives, dungeons, or alternative platforms that are friendly to discreet Dommes / more lifestyle-leaning professionals, I’d appreciate being pointed in the right direction.
Thanks in advance.