Curious about how many subs prefer to be securely restrained for CP and how many fall into the "hold the position" school of thought.

Dommes, what are your preferences about bondage? What to you see more of?

Also......gagged or not during CP?



I'm firmly in the "heavy and very secure restraints" school (including a secure and effective gag). To me it emphasizes my helplessness and the Domme's power over me. The preferring a gag thing also makes being told to count not appealing to me.

I enjoy both with heavy impact play, but favor restrained more.

I prefer to be securely restrained and I don't like to be gagged. Don't like to be blindfolded during high intensity impact play.

Good point about the blindfold. Both ways have their appeal to me. Watching the Domme select and handle various implements can add to the apprehension and anticipation. On the other hand, waiting for the next strike and having the pain suddenly blossom without warning also has its appeal.

I want some eye protection for the CP, who uses a whip. I need bondage because I'm thin and only 63 lbs., so I kick around too much. A material gag is great, so I can scream and bite down to take the pain.

Bondage goes with everything.

Agree 100%! To me it is the foundation and an essential ingredient of any great session.

I'm a bondage lover and incorporate it into 99% of my sessions.

When it comes to cp I do enjoy mixing it up.

Sometimes my subs will be restrained heavily

sometimes they'll be restrained in more predicament bondage

Sometimes I'll keep them free... but put a pencil in their mouth or make them balance a cup etc on their backs/head/etc. If they drop the cup or leave bite marks on the pencil, there's extra punishment!

One of my favorites is balancing a die on someone while I play. If they let the die roll off their body... they get a punishment depending on what number it lands on

I prefer ungagged most times.