Soapy
Max had its share of trolls, so it's hard to say who was real and who was bullshitting.

But I just don't buy that a lot of prodomme customers hate women.

I guess you'd have to describe what number is a "lot". To me if ten people visit a dome, a lot would be greater than half.......

I suspect a dominatrix worth her salt can smell someone who hates women. Probably a question best left to the dommes to answer.

Aside from the trolls, it seemed to me that a lot of the guys on Max were regular guys with irregular kinks.

I can only speak for myself, but the only time I'm submissive is the time I'm in contact with the Domme.
When I walk away, I think I'm the same as I was before I got there......if I was an asshole prior to the session, Im probably still the same asshole....but I'd like to think I'm just a regular with an irregular kink......

But I sure as hell don't hate women, nor is that the impression I got from a lot of the guys on Max.
Not trying to make you wrong.....just open to discussion. Maybe I'm a dumbass who doesn't choose to see what may be obvious to others.
TD