So I have a friend -also submissive also sees dominatrixes etc…

However he is quite the conundrum as talking to him in real life he will casually call women the b word c word etc…

He seems to think that because he pays Mistresses to kick him in the balls every few weeks or so that he’s not a misogynist- and it’s like dude that does not make you Gloria Steinem.

Perhaps not the best example since that’s more blatant than subtle but just so I’m not that guy, what are some things sub might casually do that they might not realize are not something a true sub would do (obviously topping from the bottom but other examples appreciated as well). TIA.