I was very excited to finally session with Mistress Devilina. I had to go through a very thorough intake process. She wanted to understand why I have certain desires and needs, to get to the root of my desire to submit.

The session was one the worst that I have ever had. It was a two hour session, after about an hour and a half, she didn’t know what to do any more. It was as if we had had no previous discussions. She has no idea of what she is doing.

https://www.xodevilina.com/

Carlos,

Sorry about your experience.

May I ask - what factors had influence on your decision to see Devilina?

I am on the East Coast, and know very little about the West Coast scene. But I know of at least 8 professional dommes in the San Francisco area that I would not hesitate to schedule with based on their stellar reputation alone.

I guess my point is - go with a sure thing. With so many good options in San Francisco, why take a chance? There is always a "chemistry aspect", but what you describe is not that. It sounds like she just ran out of ideas, and didn't know what to do to fulfill the time.

How was the first 1 hr 30 mins? Was that part good? If yes, it was good - I don't think this negative review is warrented. I mean, come on, its 30 minutes.

Celeste

Thank you for your message.I agree with you. Which Dommes do you recommend?

She is a new Domme but her ad on Tryst was very well written and thoughtful, that is why I decided to schedule a session. Also she communicated very well. I think that the difference between the communication and the actual session was incredibly disappointing. Probably she has very low experience but pretended to be very experienced.

There was nothing good about the session. My main complaint is not that after 90 minutes she didn’t know what to do. My complaint is that the entire session was horrible.

Hey Carlos, sorry that you had a disappointing experience. I know how much we all look forward to a great session, especially with a Domme we are seeing for the first time.

I used the link you provided to check out her website and it looked pretty authentic to me. From her website I took a look at her fetlife profile and I thought it was great. She seems to be very active in her local BDSM community and runs/attends a number of educational and lifestyle events. Based on her Fetlife profile she appears to be a ProDomme with significant experience so I find it surprising that she would run out of ideas or not know what to do in a session.

Did you give her any feedback after the session ? Did you share with her that you were disappointed ? If so, did she respond and how so ?
Did you the session last the entire 2 hours or did you end it early ?
Absent a little more context, the review seems a little harsh to me but I do understand your disappointment.

Sometimes the chemistry just isn't there and that's not the fault of the Domme, or the sub for that matter. It just happens. Best to just learn from the experience and move on.

Best of luck with your future sessions!

Carlos,

Here are a few that I would be honored to serve, and have a high confidence level in the quality of session:

Lux
Chloe Mercury
Grey
Elise Graves
Yuki
Colette
Tomie

And there are many more. These "caught my eye", and I believe I would have good chemistry / compatibility.

I hope this is helpful, and good luck on your kink journey.

Celeste