That does sound incredibly hot especially because of the way y'all pushed him past his limits to achieve something he really wanted.

I think we can all talk in the abstract about what would be topping from the bottom, but need and desire is incredibly hot within play and expressing that by saying "harder" in a manner that is almost begging isn't at that particular moment. Plus, if he knows instinctively that it will fuel you rather than offend is it Topping from the bottom to feed you what you need within the scene?
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