In my experience over the years, but not in this century, the days of responding to print ads of independent Mistresses, I had three appointments with ladies who either who misrepresented themselves, or were obviously high, or both. In two cases I politely and quickly excused myself, leaving a tribute behind, not so much out of politeness, but to avoid a possible confrontation.

With the third case it was obvious the lady misrepresented herself in her ad. I found out when meeting her she was a former athlete/model from Europe, who was then an interpreter with the U.N. But the grainy picture she used looked like she was in her early 40s, my age then. The picture had to be from 20 or so years before. At first glance you could see that she was probably very alluring years before, and she was quite charming, so I didn't drop the tribute and leave. Instead I decided to at least sit down and chat with her. When she was ready to start the session - her being the Amazon capturing Tarzan - instead of leaving I suggested we do a "next door neighbor" scene, a seduction or peeping tom deal.

I remember a hand spanking, and a bit of seductive teasing was involved. She was pleased at the end and gave me a big hug when I left and I felt better about myself on the drive home.