Originally Posted By NaughtyNickB
At first I was a little taken aback by the idea, but hearing the perspective of dommes, I can definitely see where you're coming from in terms of needing to filter out noise and abuse.


To be clear, my intent wasn't to speak for other Dommes. The perspective here is mine, and Lady Bellatrix. I have no idea why other ask for "application fees". And I don't call mine an "application fee", by the way.

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I'm kind of a vanilla player; I really just need a few swats on the bare bottom to be sent home happy. I guess I can imagine that guys who are into darker or more hardcore BDSM might be more likely to be abusive.


You may be surprised to learn that it doesn't seem to be related to kinks. I had a pantyhose fetishist bug me for years; a guy who like superhero roleplays who, after being told no, would come back over and over, pretending to be someone else; and the two most violent and threatening messages I received through my site? Two different Dommes.

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I think one of the reasons that the scene is shrinking


Wait. The scene is shrinking?

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We certainly can't take advantage of the social media platforms, so maybe someone needs to build one for us. I would say joining would be free, but in order to be able to contact a domme, you would need to be a paid member.


Wait. Isn't this OnlyFans?

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Furthermore, there would need to be strict moderation & consequences. For instance, if you get banned from the platform, you wouldn't be able to sign up for another paid account with the same credit card. I would actually take on creating this if I had help.


I'm confused because I'm not sure what this accomplishes? Is this a site for Dommes to make money or a site for subs to pay flat fees to flood Dommes' inboxes?

If a guy wants to talk to a Domme there are already lots of ways to do that.