I have noticed that several Dommes on Tryst are requesting different Donations for specific services, "e.g." Foot Worship $300, Ballbusting $400. I have always included both Fetish and BDSM interests in a session for a single Donation. Am I missing something?

Mistress Mickey

I see listings along those lines that give me pause. I'm used to seeing additional fees for things like toilet servitude or other activities that may require more from the Mistress.

But when I see these menus where activities broken out that really don't place an extra burden on the Mistress, it stops me because it is a reminder that I'm entering into a paid business transaction.

Of course, I know that I am. I just want to better enjoy the fantasy that I'm having an organic encounter.

OTOH, there is a findom aspect to the specialized menus. "You want me to piss on your face? Then pay me $100." Sometimes that could be exciting.

This is merely an assumption but maybe it's to cater to fetishist? I've noticed this as well, it's strange I don't get it.

I don't generally separate fetishes by cost, but I do offer a very specific type of discounted session for certain fetishists.

I offer "Strictly Spanking", "Solely Worship" and "Just Busted" sessions for spanking, foot worship and ball busting. These sessions include no other kinks or play, they can only be for 1hr and I see them in whatever street clothes I happen to be wearing that day.

I don't need equipment or gear and there's next to no set up or clean up. So for me it's worth it to cater to those who are true fetishists and just want that one specific thing in a no fuss setting.

I prefer longer sessions, but I know someone who just wants a little time with my feet before the scent wears off, simply wants an old-fashioned spanking or loves ball busting but can't take it for very long are less apt to book a regular session.

Damn. A “just busted” session where you show up in whatever street clothes you are wearing sounds AMAZING!!!

It's the perfect scenario of feeling like your hot neighbor knows your kinks and uses them against you. Plus I get to kick balls in my favorite "walking around" shoes.

Some Dommes prefer a flat rate for everything. Others may vary the rate depending on various factors.

I have a standard rate and then I offer what I call my "Specialty Scenes" where the tribute is reduced for certain types of play. This is because certain types of play involve much less work than other types.

I just posted something on FetLife that relates to how people may decide their tributes: https://fetlife.com/groups/747/group_posts/31232650

I think it depends on the time and effort required from the Domme. I can see an extra fee for something like complex heavy rubber bondage…….. A scene that requires a lot of expensive ,fragile gear and results in lots of post session cleaning for the Domme

Your example of different fees for ball busting and foot worship, on the other hand, doesn’t make a lot of sense to me.