Originally Posted By buffalo
Guys of my generation remember looking in magazines for ads and contact info. This was pre internet and email. Tbh I don’t remember how I contacted Dommes in the beginning. Phone which would’ve been a land line or snail mail to a P.O. Box I’d guess. It is so much easier now to find Dommes but in other ways more difficult and complicated to book , at least for me in my personal circumstances.


It's guaranteed that Dommes from previous eras all had their gripes. There have always been and always will be guys who want to fuck around and aren't serious about a session or whatever else they're pretending to be interested in.

As technology evolves it helps us to do some things more efficiently (find each other) but, as you said, may make it seem more difficult to book. The truth is that it's not really more difficult to book for those of us on the doing-the-actual-work side. We have tools to ensure that we are actually spending our time doing the things we actually would like to do with people. I promise you that if there was a way for a Domme in the 70s to have some kind of Carnac predictive skill when she received a letter in the mail she would use it to save herself some eyerolls. And it's very likely she did. "This envelope is too thick. It's another multi-page fantasy." *drops in trash*

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I wonder about AI and scams too. I like Tryst for finding people but I do wonder about some of the listings. I’d like to say I am only going to session with well established Dommes where there’s no doubt they are real but my limited opportunities don’t always make that possible.


Scamming will blow up. AI can make photos of beautiful women from thin air and write an entire website. Men are going to lose lots and lots of money if they don't (FINALLY) learn to do their research. smile


Edited by Mistress Tissa (03/10/25 01:26 PM)