Originally Posted By Lady Bellatrix
Every Domme I know, including myself has an abundance of information on their websites. What additional information would a potential applicant possibly need?


If I may, Lady: every *serious* Domme. There are a lot of Dommes who actually do not have an abundance of info on their sites. Sometimes a somewhat baffling lack of info, actually. But this, in my opinion, is something I would use to determine the kind of professional I'd want to see.

For those of us who provide a good amount of info, and then have some ways of getting to know us (social media, fan sites, blogs), it becomes less clear what "little information" is needed.

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A "possible session" sounds like window shopping to me and someone looking for a bit of free banter. Putting an application fee in place gives me the incentive to reply to these types of emails.


I very much agree.

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A vast majority of us have fan clubs or other premium platforms now days. Chit chat is chargeable. So sending an email to "get to know" the Domme before committing to a session just isn't going to fly in this day and age


I think for some guys they consciously tell themselves that they really innocently want to just ask a few questions but it's really a subconscious game.

I had a guy who contacted me on FetLife, "Mistress, I read your website but I didn't see an answer to my question. How often in advance can I book a session?"

I knew this guy wasn't asking because he actually wanted to book a session. It was because he found a little chink in my armor and wanted to get in.

I answered, knowing he'd never book. I was right. Never heard from him again. (I did put that question on my site, though!)