Someone once told Me that they thought real sessions began about the 2 hour mark – anything else was a waste of time. With some subs that is true. It takes time for them to ease into their submissive mode and reach the subspace they seek. The poster of this review has never had less than a 3 hour session with Me. Many have been 5 hours, 6 hours and even overnight. He and I share a vast amount of interests and he can really take a lot, so I look forward to these extended sessions and use them to steadily push his limits.

Here are some excerpts from his latest review. The entire review can be found on Max Fisch's The Hang .

“In my communications with Mistress Ayn prior to our date, I requested a four hour “Intense” session. Well be careful what you ask for. Mistress pays attention to your every word.

When I arrived at the Dungeon, Mistress was dressed to KILL in sexy heels, latex leggings, latex corset, and top. Absolutely Gorgeous . I happened to bring along a few gifts for Her upcoming Birthday and a Latex Metallic Red Blazer. She put the Blazer on and you’ve never seen a more Beautiful Mistress. I couldn’t keep my eyes off Her.

Now down to business. Four hours of “Intense” business.

. . . I have very few Hard Limits. One of them is Ball Busting. I expressed a curiosity in the past to explore this and Mistress Ayn obviously remembered. I was about to get my first lesson. She began with the heavy flogger. Easy at first, then slowly increasing the intensity. She then proceeded to knee and kick them. I’m sure we’ll expand on that experience in future sessions, but it was exciting to try. Next Mistress tied up my balls and proceeded to add, I have no idea how many, clothes pins (large and small) to my balls, shaft, and corona. While they did their work, She turned Her attention back to my nipples with that Nasty Nasty little cane. Between beating my nipples with that and trying to slap off the clips down below with it, the wrist cuffs on the cross was the only thing holding me up.

We retreated to the Medical Room so She could began preparing me. I was placed into a red bra and laid down on the Gyno Chair. I was strapped in tight, wrists secured, legs in the stirrups. Mistress slipped a device under the bra over my nipples. This device grabs and twists the nipples under power. Next a series of dilators were used to begin stretching my ass. Finally, an inflatable butt plug was added. An inflatable gag was strapped on next. Mistress wanted all my holes filled, so with that, out came the sounding rods . . .

Satisfied with Her prep work, I was released from the Gyno Chair, implements were removed and we went back into the Dungeon. I was placed back on my knees and my wrists were cuffed behind my back. Mistress Ayn appeared before me donning Her Strap On. She instructed me to suck her cock before She Fucked My Face. Humiliated and helpless, I did as She asked. Next I was ordered on to the Spanking Bench. Wrists and Legs strapped down, collar hooked to the bench with no room to move, balls tied, stretched and secured to the bench.

I had a custom signature paddle made for Mistress Ayn. It was time to break it in. After more blows than I counted, I can honestly say, it was VERY effective. Add to that the fact that I could not move due to the restraints…very intense . . .

. . . During this time She reached down to my incredibly sore nipples and began to pinch them again. Call it sub space or whatever, but I told Her “Harder”, and boy did She respond to that request….Her strap on was replaced with a prostate toy. Mistress Ayn then went from one nipple to the other, back and forth applying pressure and whispering in my ear “Say It”, to which I would reply “Harder” It was such an amazing high . . .

Next She selected a Dragon Tail and really went to work on my back like never before. When I thought I couldn’t take anymore, She paused and whispered “I’m going to push you to the edge”, and proceeded with another more intense flurry while just saying “Take It”. Mistress Ayn paused again, leaned in and said “Say It” To which I responded “Harder”, And it was!! This went on for several more flurries. When it was over, every part of my body was shaking. Mistress Ayn stayed close and with a soft hand and voice, talked me back down to earth. But my ordeal was far from over. . .

She is an Amazing Mistress. I’m so proud to be in Her company. Love Her.”

Read the full review here.

Hmm I would categorize his ball busting "hard limit" as more of what I like to call a "soft limit" My preference is that the buttocks are what should hurt the most at the end of the session, not the back, thighs, soles of the feet etc. It is not that those other areas are off limits but rather they should only be secondary targets.

I've stated on more than one occasion that I very rarely do sessions lasting more than two hours.

Might I ask what portion of this session you enjoyed most?

This is one of those subs that is very much like Asp described himself in the thread titled Session Approaches. This sub can be marked and has learned to be a proper pain slut, I can do things like whipping and caning that I don't have the opportunity to do on a daily basis - so I always enjoy the heavy S&M part of our sessions.

However if I had to choose one segment that I most enjoyed in this scene, it was the part on the cross where I was alternating between whipping him and pinching his nipples and he was saying "harder". I knew what it was costing him each time he said "harder" and near the end I had to encourage him by laying My head on his shoulder and saying "say it". He would and I would pinch his nipple, feel him buck against My cheek and feel his pain as an energy that transferred into Me. It was a series of beautiful moments.

You may find this hard to believe but I don't think I've ever said "Harder!" in a session. The reasons are twofold:

When I started a majority of my sessions involved a role play and in nearly all of them I was either punished for something I have done or else forced by torment to do something. In all of those saying "Harder" seemed out of character. As my sessions began to be less and less explicit role play there was still a subtle implicit role vibe going on and so saying "Harder!" still seemed out of character. (Connected with this when a Domme does "tell me how much you love this" shtick I feel that she is the one stepping out of character in the implicit role play. Not good)

Secondly saying "Harder!" is borderline "topping from the bottom" IMO.

OMG, is that hot and such a perfect description of the scene.

I think context and the personal interaction between the Domme and sub determine whether it is topping from the bottom so I don't think that is true in this case. However, I am completely with Thomas on this one as I recoil at the thought of directing a Domme's actions during a session by saying something like "harder".

I can believe that - even though you are a maso. And it could most certainly be considered topping from the bottom (which I HATE) but I didn't see it this way this time.

However, it would be kind of fun for a topping from the bottom sub to say "harder". That could actually be a fun session.

As I replied to thomas, I would normally agree. However, for whatever reason, his saying that was the thing that turned a very good session into a great one. You never know where the magic will come from or who will inspire it.

I am going to digress slightly, but . . .

Goddess Samantha and I filmed a clip yesterday with one of her collared subs. He had been begging for a double, extreme caning. I will note that the last time he asked for this he ended up saying "red" very early in and I have called him a "pussy" ever since. I have seen the beatings he can take and he didn't come close.

In this clip, we negotiated that he had no safe word. He wanted this to happen, there was no "out" and he agreed. Early in (actually during the warm up with paddles) he said "red" and Samantha got in his face and reminded him that he had begged for this, that he was now embarrassing her and that the only way he was getting out of it was to to tell her now - but if he got off that bench, he might as well keep on walking. Everything changed in that moment and he ended up talking his brutal caning like the maso sub we both knew him to be - and he was happy as a clam when it was done. It was one hot clip and a great example of CNC - and what happens when someone tries to top from the bottom (which actually started with his begging for a brutal caning).

That does sound incredibly hot especially because of the way y'all pushed him past his limits to achieve something he really wanted.

I think we can all talk in the abstract about what would be topping from the bottom, but need and desire is incredibly hot within play and expressing that by saying "harder" in a manner that is almost begging isn't at that particular moment. Plus, if he knows instinctively that it will fuel you rather than offend is it Topping from the bottom to feed you what you need within the scene?

Precisely and very well said.