This may be off the beaten path (pun INTENDED on this snowy day) but I forgot this "memorable first" with a dominant female I mentioned in my first post, who looked more like a mature movie star, long blondish hair, gorgeous face. More female athlete than the typical bodybuilder type.

Her specialties were scissoring, non-competitive wrestling and roleplay. Went to her hotel and she was intimidating. Probably 5 ft. 8 in. or so, in heels (which she was wearing) at least my 6 ft. 1 in. She was 155 lbs. or so.

At some point she went over and sat in a lounge chair in the room and said, "Have you ever been lifted before?" Not knowing what she meant, I said no. She said, "Come over here and sit on my lap." I put my 225 pounds right where she said, and put her left arm around my back and right arm under my legs. "On the count of three I'm going to lift you. DON'T SQUIRM." The way she said it I was ALREADY intimidated. On the count of three she stood up with me in her arms, and, in high heels no less, began walking with me in her arms across the room. The sensation was amazing, as was the intimidation. If she could do that, what else could she do to me?

She reached the bed, threw me onto it like a sack of potatoes, and I rolled over onto my chest. "CLOSE YOUR EYES!" I did, and felt her climbing onto the bed. "OPEN!" I immediately saw her bare feet and looked up. She seemed like a giantess, 10 feet tall. She only did it once, but once was enough. I was in immediate subspace, a place with her I did not leave until she retired a few years later. What a woman...