Gawd, I love this post, Mistress Tissa.
Thanks, Celeste. I'm glad you could appreciate it.

From this submissive perspective - Why would you balk at paying an application fee?
You balk because you want to have room to not commit. Because you think that the "customer" should be allowed certain liberties, regardless of how they may distress the person who is granting you those liberties. Or simply because you're cheap.
My mindset is 1.) if I REALLY want to see her, I will GLADLY follow defined protocols. Its the right and respectful thing to do. 2.) I want to please and satisfy my Mistress. Why not do the little things to make her happy and please her. Thats what its all about!
And this is a wonderful attitude to have, and one I agree with.
If someone really want to session with me, they will gladly send a small gift to show me they're serious about making it happen. It makes me feel respected, which is a great start to a relationship, and, frankly, I know I'm totally worth it.
