I have been very lucky in that regard. The Mistress I exclusively serve now I have sessioned with off and on since the late '90s. The only breaks were when she moved out of state for a time, and when either she or I dropped out of the scene for awhile.

I've been an advisor with her vanilla business and done a variety of errands and jobs for her over the years. In tough times she has confided in me, and I have with her. The Mistress is now under-the-radar and centers on Her vanilla career. I have been given "privileges" as she calls it, with below market rates for sessions that go beyond the scheduled time; allowing me to play in her home on occasion; and suggesting or agreeing to play in some interesting outdoor venues. She has slowly coaxed me into activities I would never do with any other dominatrix, because of the mutual trust and understanding we have for each other. We know what each other likes, and we respect limits.

This is not a romantic situation. I have become a valued client and friend. Her vanilla business is growing and I see a time, maybe soon, when she may move on. If she does I will retire from the scene. For me that might be sooner that I expect, since while I'm in good health, I have reached a certain age where anything can happen.

In the meantime AspX, "It's nice to be appreciated."