Hi KBB,

I've always been poly, I suppose, in terms of having two or three dommes I like to see and choosing based on circumstance and availability. I also tend to associate dommes with certain styles of play, and maybe I'm more into one style than another at any given moment.

But that was years ago. I'd happily be monogamous in my in-person play (there is one lifestyle woman I've played long distance with for years and will continue) if I could find the right person. The domme I saw regularly over the last several years on her NY trips from abroad (and who I was effectively monogamous with as I didn't see anyone else in those years) sadly seems to be retired. The last domme I saw here in NY also traveled here from Europe, but that's not a regular thing with her. If I could find an old-school, traditional domme 40 or older in the city who I connected with I'd probably find myself in your situation. Until then, I think it's seeing someone I've seen before on an infrequent tour here or sessioning while traveling.