KBB,

Congratulations & I am extremely happy for both you and MVC. She is an amazing person & I am glad y'all found each other.

I am unique in that I am poly when it comes to relationships (bdsm & other) but that each of my relationships is really deep and dedicated during the time we are together (which is more that just a session & sometimes involves me moving in with a Domme I am serving for more than a week at a time). Its weird to have multiple relationships where I am basically collared but each one is extremely special to that Domme & me (it is probably similar to yours & MVCs in that it involves breaks in between seeing each other, with the difference being that those breaks are filled in by service to other Dommes).

My feeling is that monogamy has to be a two-way street (unless cuckolding is key to the dynamic, but even then it still has to be her cucking to cuck you & not just to get laid). Pros rarely have those kinds of relationships with client subs & my experience is that most have some other primary relationship over and above anything that they do as a Pro, including collared relationships with a client sub. So, if that is how they choose to live their life then I should do the same.

In my experience, this actually works better for them as they can pick me up & put me down as they see fit within the complexity of their life. They also all know that I base my life around their requests for my service & unless I have committed that time to someone else, I am always at their beck & call (for those that I have that deep relationship with).

Weirdly, I actually have only seen one new person since the beginning of the Pandemic so it's not like I am slutting around like I used to, so it's not the joy of the chase or some new kinky experience that gets me going, it's that every person brings something different to my life, which enhances every other relationship. Just my way of thinking..