I had an amazing experience playing with a longtime partner over the holidays. I've always been a huge fan of predicament bondage and in a similar vein being forced into choosing between two equally challenging activities.

In this case she combined breath restriction, my fur fetish and CP.....secured spreadeagled on my back my head was wrapped with a fox fur coat pulled up over my head and tied around my neck with the collar folded over my face (fur side in)....not to the point of getting no air at all but certainly restricting air flow so that it felt more and more like being smothered as time went one. Gravity held the fur over my nose and mouth and the effect was relentless.

I was told I'd be there for 30 minutes but if I really needed a break all i had to do was use the safeword "air" and she would fold the coat back off my nose and mouth giving me unrestricted breathing for 30--45 seconds or so. The catch was that "air' was also code for "please give me 6 very firm strikes with the cane"

I ended up reaching the point where I couldn't take having my face covered with the fur about every 3-4 minutes on average. She added some teasing to make it tougher as the more aroused i got the faster my pulse and the more I needed to breathe. By the time we reached the 30 minute mark I had called "air" 7 times and had ended up with 42 strokes of the cane on my inner thighs.

Pure evil genius.

We got the idea from a video by Baroness Essex when she had a sub strapped in a bondage chair wearing a gas mask. She would shut off his air with her palm over the hose vand the only way he could get it restored was by pushing a button that gave him a high intensity shock from an erostek wired to both his balls and to a butt plug. I was always fascinated by that video and this arrangement was inspired by it.

I absolutely love the idea of being forced to choose your method of suffering

I posted this last year. It wasn't so much about recounting my specific experience as wondering how often Dommes play a variation on this type of "no win" situation games with a sub? Have you experienced this type of thing in session where you have been forced to "pick your poison" and choose how you will suffer next?

I find the idea a great way for the Domme to play mind games and demonstrate her control. Do you like being kept off balance and wondering what might be coming next?

Surprises can be wicked!