During one of my BDSM sessions in Shanghai, a Canadian slave opened up to me about all his fetishes. He revealed a staggering list of over ten unique desires, ranging from the common to the truly niche. Among them was his fascination with prolapse — a fetish centered on arousal from witnessing and worshipping a woman’s prolapse.

As it happens, I have a prolapse myself, a condition I’ve come to understand is not uncommon among women, particularly those who struggle with chronic constipation. It’s a reality many women face but rarely discuss, given the stigma surrounding such intimate topics.

While I’m always open to exploring and accommodating my submissives’ fantasies to the extent that they align with my boundaries and safety considerations, I decided I could not engage in a prolapse fetish session with him directly. BDSM is as much about creating safe spaces for exploration as it is about maintaining mutual respect for boundaries. However, I understood his longing and was willing to meet him halfway by offering a custom prolapse video service. This way, he could indulge in his fantasy safely and ethically, without compromising my personal limits or well-being.

This experience reminded me of the incredible diversity of human desire and the trust that submissives place in me as their dominatrix. It’s a reminder of how BDSM can serve as a platform for open dialogue about topics that might otherwise remain taboo. In my role, I strive to find creative, respectful ways to bridge the gap between fantasy and reality, ensuring that every interaction upholds the principles of consent, trust, and personal boundaries.