Hi Domina M:

Great to hear from you! Thanks so much for your kind words and gracious reply! Finding a kink friendly therapist helped me better understand myself, figure out what was wrong with my approach to the scene and modify it accordingly so my orientation was healthier and more positive. Pro sessions should be beneficial. They should leave a client feeling more positive about himself and life in general. One clue that things weren't quite right with me was the awful sub drop I used to experience between sessions. I never experience that anymore, since going into therapy and finding MVC. I'd heard of boundaries before going into therapy, and thought I knew what they were, but I didn't honestly understand them or how they worked. Folks need boundaries on both sides of the whip in this type of relationship, any type of relationship really, but BDSM especially I think. I'm with you about finding a GOOD therapist too. They aren't all good, just as all Dommes aren't good, so it's crucial to find a really good one. I made the "kink friendly" part the most important part of my search when looking for a therapist and it worked out really well for me.

Thanks also for your kind words about MVC. She's the best and just adore her!