I've been following this thread and I definitely think you made the right choice. It's always disappointing when you plan something you look forward to, only to have to cancel. That being said, I have a couple points I'd like to inquire about, --out of curiosity -- to try to work out what happened, I find it so odd that 1. She did not ask for a deposit 2. She just completely dropped off without an email when theres a session booked.

How many emails were exchanged when booking originally? Would it be enough that she'd block your email or dismiss your request? Did you make sure to book through her website with her email address? Is this possibly a Domme imposter? Is it possible your email address got blocked unintentionally? I constantly have emails bounce when they're iCloud addresses. Have you tried writing her from a different email address?