Originally Posted By EvedLeNashim
Hi. I've been in the D/s scene and lifestyle for 40 years. I'm recently single after a 23 year marriage.

What sites are good for one wanting to meet someone for a potential relationship? It's been a really long time for me...is alt.com still worthwhile? Collarme.com? Fetlife doesn't seem to be geared towards direct connections, or am I wrong?

Any advice would be appreciated.


FetLife is not designed to be a dating site and that's why you can't search for 18 year old women who are looking for a Daddy Dom or whatever. Here, you have the best odds that you're dealing with someone who is kinky.

If you want to increase the odds that you are dealing with someone who wants a relationship I would say you can try most dating sites, like Match.com and the like.