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#22025 - 11/04/24 03:13 PM Re: Married Subs and Being a Personal Slave [Re: buffalo]
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It’s not uncommon for personals to be in relationships/married.

A few of the ones who serve/have served me were in relationships that were ‘open,’; others manage/d to compartmentalize the two arenas of their lives. Clear communication and availability on their part were negotiated.

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#22029 - 11/05/24 12:51 AM Re: Married Subs and Being a Personal Slave [Re: MistressMaraM]
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“Clear communication and availability were negotiated “

Thinking back on the opportunity that the Domme was trying to give me I wish I would have communicated more to her and not just given up. I’m pretty sure my thinking was I had to be all in with her original directions but she was a great Domme and a cool person and most likely would have worked with me. Unfortunate I felt like I’d failed her and just gave up thinking there’s no way I could have done it.
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#22030 - 11/05/24 01:02 AM Re: Married Subs and Being a Personal Slave [Re: junglebeast]
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Sounds like you have a good relationship with your Domme going. My relationship with the Domme was similar to what you describe I don’t think we were quite as close. still miss her. She’s moved. We are in very occasional touch. I do wonder if she still working as a Domme part time or not.
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