Mistress Ayn as I said I don’t think I am in your target audience for this particular group you are talking about but I do think there is value in being able to talk with other subs in general. I have never spoken to another sub. . The idea of doing this would’ve been horrific years ago although as I’ve aged I find I am less hung up and less paranoid although still very private and closeted. I do have submissive desires to go deeper into submission with someone but I am very sure I will never live them out. At present if I can session once or twice a year I am lucky. Still i wonder if and how other married subs manage do this and it would be interesting to hear of the experiences of someone who does if there are any. Actually I should probably start a thread on this topic.