This comment is so fascinating to me. I think the transition from vanilla world to the in-role/ in-session dynamic is an experience in and of itself that is deeply affecting when done intentionally and meaningfully. This can be or some sort of recitation or structured dialog/ pledge/ statement of consent and subservience ...or it can be wordless, assuming a position or making a specific gesture or an action by the Domme such as Her undressing me or instructing me to undress in a certain way ...the placing of a collar ... i think the very hottest and most psychologically engaging/ inhibition removing/ liberating into that higher plane of submission is having some instructions to follow just before arrival....

Coming out of it equally and I think this is something that is very hard to do well and so I have deep admiration for Dommes that put thought and effort into it. Ive had experience with Dommes who were such lovely and caring people that the out-going transition/ after care was actually too affectionate and left me feeling a bit ...guilty or selfish? I think the best, most emotionally fulfilling experiences ive had on that part of the experience is actually the Domme talking about how She experienced the session...what parts were interesting or arousing or provocative for Her ...and/or allusions to what She has in mind for the future ...that for me is the way to be dismissed with a real sense of having moved forward in some way emotionally ....