Curious if you see CBT and CBB as separate activities and why very few Dommes seem to specifically include CBB in addition to CBT on their lists of activities?

I a huge fan of the C&B bondage aspects (humblers, parachute harnesses used in predicament rigging and other forms of restraint ) but many types of popular CBT like crushing or ball busting/kicking have zero appeal. I certainly have engaged in CBT but find things like electricity, weights or something like a Kali's bracelet far more controlled and precise than the brutality of a punch or a kick.

Curious if this differentiating is common?

I've been told I am on the fussy or particular end of the scale on more than one occasion. One Domme teased me once about being a "Goldilocks". Activities had to be not too much, not too little but just right.


I find I tend to differentiate between things like humiliation and degradation too. With the latter being a turn on in session and the other leaving me cold.

I think part of it is wanting clear communication and to make sure both parties have the same understanding of terms and expectations of what activities they involve.