Having real friends in the scene is irreplaceable. I've always encouraged My collared boys to communicate and support each other. Some are more comfortable with that than others, but I think it is a wonderful thing when it comes together. You, of course were a part of that circle for a while - I still miss wheelz.

That is kind of on the fringes of what I am talking about, but no less valid and certainly interesting. Thank you for sharing.

As do I Mistress... he was a great guy & a very good friend to talk to about these things.

Mistress Ayn, that is the nicest thing anyone has said to me in over a month.

Just fyi I think you responded to the wrong thread with this response.

Yes I would. I think about bdsm a lot and it would be good to have people to bounce things off. That’s kind of what Max and this board was/is good for but are too free wheeling and erratic so not the best for getting information. Not focused enough is what I am trying to say. However my issues and questions may not be what it sounds like your group would be targeting.

I'd say no. While I enjoy discussing BDSM activities, equipment and scene ideas I don't really fit most definitions of a submissive. I see myself more as a fetishist, bondage bottom and sensation player.
Even in a relationship the D/s was really only in the playroom rather than a feature of everyday life.

I agree on this, when this board is at its best is when someone brings a real question (rather than just something about kink) & everyone jumps in with different points of views & ideas for dealing with that situation.

Honestly, no. Although would this to be prepare for a relationship with a specific dominant woman or in general? If the former, and I really wanted a 24/7 relationship with that person, and she required it, I suppose so. If in general, I'd rather that such a relationship proceed more organically.

There was a time when I would have used it.