So one topic that would be for me something to discuss is how to balance exploration of kink in middle age. When I was much younger that wasn't a question -- one played or didn't and one pursued relationships in or outside of the kink community without much difficulty. At a later stage of life, when there are many more commitments but also perhaps one has a stronger sense of wanting to pursue submission as more than just a here or there playtime, there's a lot of balance. I don't know if that is sort too dull and too far away from the actual substance to fit into what you are thinking about, but I would say that for me is one thing I would really like to be able to talk about. I could go on but will leave it at that for now.