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#21864 - 10/23/24 10:10 PM Re: Letting subs down easy... [Re: MistressMaraM]
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Registered: 10/19/15
Posts: 162
This in reply to all of the Dommes who have shared their opinions on this topic.

I have had the pleasure of seeing a good number of Dommes over many years. I have found the vast majority of them to be reasonable and considerate while communicating with me both before and after sessions. I would like to think that I have been the same to them. Only once while asking for an initial session has a Domme responded to me that she didn't feel our chemistry was a good fit. She declined the session. I thanked her for her time and moved on. I foolishly thought that was what all subs would do.

I am so sorry that you have had to deal with the terrible situations and risks that you describe. I embarrassed that other subs have behaved so poorly to put you in these situations. I am sure you all knew "the job was dangerous" when you embarked on this career, but no one should be subject to the threats that some of you have experienced.

I believe I am speaking for the vast majority of subs who like me hold you in the highest regard, with a deep appreciation for what you do to enable us to explore and indulge our kink in a safe, respectable and judgement free environment.

So sorry you have to endure that threatening bullshit.

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#21866 - 10/24/24 08:06 AM Re: Letting subs down easy... [Re: Mistress UV]
slave47 Online   content
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Registered: 02/04/20
Posts: 35
I totally agree

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#21971 - 10/31/24 09:16 PM Re: Letting subs down easy... [Re: Mistress UV]
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Registered: 11/02/15
Posts: 778
Loc: Philadelphia
Originally Posted By Mistress UV
Ever have a session that you just didn't have the correct dynamic or chemistry with your sub? Does the thought of having to put up with that sub again for any amount of money turn your stomach? Was the sub pushy, top from the bottom, cross personal boundaries?


Absolutely.

Quote:
what is the best way to let a sub down easy?


I like to be honest but kind. If we're not a good match I tell them that.

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