I'm sorry Mistress, it was not my intention to throw out an insult & I am sorry you read it that way. I definitely wasn't calling anyone out by name so I am not sure why you took it as an insult. We are also probably also talking about two different situations. If you only had one bad encounter with a sub and you think it might turn dangerous then I can understand not engaging.


However, I am speaking from my experiences being on both sides of rejection within D/s. Specifically in relation to Pros, I have longer term associations with Dommes & am pretty well known for my moderate temperment.

So, yes, when a Domme decides to end a longer term relationship (as in 5+ years of sessioning & outside the dungeon support) by ghosting it is extremely rude & weak, imo, and yes I do think that it says a lot about the person behind the persona if they choose that route. Insulting or not.

I've had Dommes choose not to see me again for various reasons. Shit happens, people make decisions, and I respect that totally in all realms but when it is going to have a large effect on the other person, just sending a simple message saying they have made that decision is the proper way to act as a person regardless of D/s.

Those Dommes that do that, I will always respect even if they have rejected me for some reason (even those that go out of their way to avoid interactions on forums or in public settings years later after never being stalked, harassed or even contacted by me). Those that don't, I won't & do think its a character flaw on their part.