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#21765 - 10/07/24 03:16 PM How often should you email?
Aztoilet Online   content
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I try not to pester Dommes but how long should I wait until sending another email if I've gotten no response? Session was scheduled months ago and is now a couple weeks away and I like to follow up because in the past I've had Dommes forget about sessions that were booked a long time in advance.

In the normal business world I'd expect a response in 48hrs but many Dommes in my experience take much longer than that to respond so is 5 days more reasonable?

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#21769 - 10/07/24 09:38 PM Re: How often should you email? [Re: Aztoilet]
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5 days is very reasonable, make sure to check their social media to see if they're on vacation/traveling.
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#21773 - 10/08/24 07:54 AM Re: How often should you email? [Re: Aztoilet]
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Generally, between 24-48 hrs is standard. Sometimes when on tour or on holiIday, it may take at least 72 hrs, but I also set up an auto-reply email, letting my schedule and response time be known.

Checking their social media and website periodically might also be helpful, in the event that they made an announcement.

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MM


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#21808 - 10/15/24 10:58 PM Re: How often should you email? [Re: Aztoilet]
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Sometimes you get sent to spam or just straight up overlooked in an overflowing inbox so if your session is coming up soon you should definitely reach out again! Concur with the other replies, 24-48 is normal.
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#21974 - 10/31/24 09:28 PM Re: How often should you email? [Re: Aztoilet]
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Originally Posted By Aztoilet
I try not to pester Dommes but how long should I wait until sending another email if I've gotten no response? Session was scheduled months ago and is now a couple weeks away and I like to follow up because in the past I've had Dommes forget about sessions that were booked a long time in advance.

In the normal business world I'd expect a response in 48hrs but many Dommes in my experience take much longer than that to respond so is 5 days more reasonable?


If someone booked a session with me months in advance, I'm fine with an email to confirm this whenever the client feels they want that confirmation.

But I usually tell a client ahead of time what they can expect from me which means they aren't in the dark about these kinds of details to begin with.

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