If I know the domme well, I generally prefer the “pounce and attack” start. But it does depend on the domme’s style. Mistress Chloe enjoys milking the anticipation as much as possible and conducts herself so elegantly that such a “pounce” approach would seem … unseemly. But if she were to, then I’d happily go with it.

And yes, I’ve already had a lifetime of great experiences—more than 200 over 30 years, including 4 spectacular dommes I saw (or see) over and over again. I’ve been blessed.