My sessions almost always center around ballbusting. For years, most Dommes I played with would always start super soft, slow. I always felt that never really helped my head space as I was always obsessing/worrying about what was to come. Lately I’ve asked Dommes to just start hard. I’ve found I end up in a much deeper sub space by the end of the session and most of the Dommes I’ve asked seem to find it quite entertaining to start the session with a hard kick to the nuts. lol.