Domina M, in terms of the "slow build" I recall when I used to session in dungeons sometimes an assistant or a Mistress would put you into the room and tell you to undress/prepare for the session. Talk about a "slow build," I recall a few occasions where I was getting undressed, then kneeling half naked and waiting for the Mistress to enter I almost began to shiver when I'd hear the sound of her walking in high heels on hardwood floors. By the time the Mistress opened the door I was like putty in her hands.

Most dramatically I served Empress Dominique of NJ in the late '90s for a couple of years doing basically seductive role play and a fetish or two. Nothing extensive. I eventually was allowed me to session in her ground floor apt. The building was like a brownstone with her entrance under the stoop, which featured a wrought iron gate and a front door a few steps away. On a warm day I arrived, rang the bell and I only began hearing the distinctive sound of backless high heels coming to the gate after what seemed like an hour, but it was only a minute or two.

She was wearing black backless high heels, black corset and bustier and a long black see-though negligee. I could see her, but no one on the street could, given the angle of the doorway. "Follow me my pet and lock the gate and the door," and we went inside. During the session she didn't have me do much, since I was practically drooling, in shock and in deep subspace just from her entrance. LOL!