Great topic.

I (or I should say SHE, since she leads) has done both over time. And both were really great and effective. I really think it was communication, mood, and tempo leading up to the scene.

One time, she completely ravaged me as soon as the door was opened. I mean clothes ripped off ravaged. I won't disclose what kind of kinks we are into.

But, as time goes on, our dynamic has changed. We are much more mature, and know each other much better. We generally chat for a bit just to check up on each others happenings and well being. This is so good too, as we now connect on a different level. But don't misinterpret this - we still play VERY HARD. It is pure fire when we play - very intense and full of energy. That is our style.

Again, great topic.....and can't wait to read other posts.....including yours from a legendary professional domme.

Celeste