This in reply to all of the Dommes who have shared their opinions on this topic.

I have had the pleasure of seeing a good number of Dommes over many years. I have found the vast majority of them to be reasonable and considerate while communicating with me both before and after sessions. I would like to think that I have been the same to them. Only once while asking for an initial session has a Domme responded to me that she didn't feel our chemistry was a good fit. She declined the session. I thanked her for her time and moved on. I foolishly thought that was what all subs would do.

I am so sorry that you have had to deal with the terrible situations and risks that you describe. I embarrassed that other subs have behaved so poorly to put you in these situations. I am sure you all knew "the job was dangerous" when you embarked on this career, but no one should be subject to the threats that some of you have experienced.

I believe I am speaking for the vast majority of subs who like me hold you in the highest regard, with a deep appreciation for what you do to enable us to explore and indulge our kink in a safe, respectable and judgement free environment.

So sorry you have to endure that threatening bullshit.

I totally agree

Absolutely.



I like to be honest but kind. If we're not a good match I tell them that.