I could start a whole other thread on the emotional weight subs "dump" on Dommes. I don't think it's just Dommes though --I think that's a conversation about expectations from gender roles in general. Expecting emotional labor from women around them is something men have a problem with in and out of ProDomme/SW worlds. As much as I'd like to connect with a lot of My good subs on a more emotional basis or get to know them better I just don't have the energy or the space, and I can bet most Dommes who take a lot of sessions would feel similar. I think they fail to take into account that we are dealing with multiple subs, while they are only in charge of serving one Domme.